3 years now. Kinda get used to it, but never really do. The memory of the happy marriage is like a tattoo: It's not coming off. I have...

I cycle a fair amount these days. I live in Sonoma County, and it is beautiful. Most of the time the weather suits cycling. I like riding...

A wise older widow said this to me, "living without your spouse doesn't get easier, it gets harder". At the time, that seemed crazy. The...

I miss her. I miss being loved by her. Without her love, my faults have merciless clarity. I couldn't help but notice that, in the book...